Unlock Parenting Goals with Northern Life Coach Krysta Voskowsky
As a mom of three energetic little ones, I’m always in search of parenting advice that’s more than just theory. Enter Krysta Voskowsky, an incredible life coach from Alaska. Krysta has taken goal-setting – a concept many of us dread as a vague, corporate buzzword – and turned it into something tangible and precious for parents like us. If the idea of setting goals fills you with a sense of obligation or requires more energy than you can muster between nap times and school pickups, you’re definitely not alone. Yet, my chat with Krysta was like a refreshing breath of crisp Alaskan air, making me realize goal-setting doesn’t have to be arduous. Instead, it can be enlightening, inspiring, and downright empowering.
Why Goal-Setting Matters for Parents
We’ve all been there, right? Sifting through endless advice that wants us to juggle a thousand tasks at once. The thought of adding more to my never-ending list made me shudder. But Krysta has a beautiful perspective: goal-setting in parenting is about crafting a life that’s meaningful to you and your kids.
Think of it this way – call it **“Family Intentions”** instead of **“Goals.”** Isn’t that so much cozier? Krysta explains that setting clear intentions helps us focus on the pivotal aspects of our family lives, ensuring our energies are spent nurturing our family bonds.
Becoming an Intentional Family
Krysta encourages parents to consciously design their family’s path. She shared a particularly powerful exercise that I simply adored:
- Gather your supplies: a cozy blanket, some cookies, and a whiteboard that says “OUR FAMILY” in bold letters.
- As a family, dream big. What do you all really want to happen? Think of activities, values, or new habits.
- Assign a time-frame – but keep it loose! No pressure needed to make it happen in weeks or months, just a gentle guide.
My tribe scribbled things like “explore a new park every month,” “learn about one new culture each week,” and “family kindness challenge.” It was as heartwarming as it was inspiring.
How Mini-Milestones Make Magic
Feeling overwhelmed by grand ambitions? You’re in good company. Life rarely follows an ordered checklist. Krysta suggests focusing on small, manageable milestones, or as she likes to say, **“Tiny Triumphs.”**
Celebrate little joys: making pancakes with the kids on Sunday mornings, completing a puzzle together, or even witnessing the peace of quiet bedtime snuggles.
Real progress doesn’t have to be monumental to be magical.
Prioritizing Play in Parenting
Sometimes, it’s too easy to let seriousness overshadow the lighthearted moments. Especially in our digital age, where everything seems to be regimented and measured.
Krysta emphasizes the value of play, using it as a tool to shape nurturing connections. Set aside structured playtimes that become non-negotiable indulgences with your kids.
I’d noted how quickly our family puzzle making filled with giggles became anticipation-filled evenings rather than just another item on the “To Do” list.
Remaining Flexible
Another nugget of brilliance from Krysta was to remain forgiving of ourselves when things stray off course. No strict and fast rules here, my fellow moms! Life with children is predictably unpredictable.
Krysta advises gentle self-reflection instead of beating yourself up for the story that unfolds differently than planned. She’s a firm believer in **“Reset Rituals,”** activities that help you re-center and breathe life into each new intention anew.
When the kids wreck your goal of having a tidy home for more than 24 hours, remember you’re setting forever memories, not just goals.
Building Your Village
Finally, Krysta reminds us of a critical aspect of setting sustainable goals: the importance of community. **”It takes a village”** couldn’t ring truer as we navigate the labyrinth of parenting. Integrate chats, play dates, and swaps with neighbors into your objectives.
Our family realized this during a neighborhood picnic where we learned new traditions and games, enriching our tapestry of shared experiences. These moments are when you find strength in numbers and laughter, offering safety nets when life flings its curveballs.
Personal Reflections on Intentional Parenting
Inspired by Krysta’s wisdom, I molded these insights into our family rhythms. It’s now clear that parenting goals aren’t daunting tasks looming over us – they’re guiding lights illuminating our days. As we savor each small victory along the way, the collective joy doesn’t just belong to me, it touches my entire family. Ultimately, it’s about living a life that feels balanced, satisfying, and wholeheartedly ours amidst the beautiful chaos of parenting in this majestic dance we call family life.
Final Thoughts
Krysta Voskowsky’s approach serves as a gentle invitation to foster connections and growth within our families, even in the chilly embrace of Alaska’s northern lights. It’s all about the journey – wobbly, sometimes unpredictable, but always rewarding. Remember, our family’s dreams are the north stars guiding us through the exciting expanse of parenthood. And that makes me feel wonderfully, excitingly equipped no matter what tomorrow brings.